Sunday, September 2, 2012

The Joy of Giving

The Joy of Giving Purpose of Life
Giving expands and satisfies us. Taking leaves us ultimately feeling empty.
It feels great to receive a gift from someone. However, the greatest satisfaction comes from Giving to others and knowing that you have made someone feel happier or made a positive contribution in some way to their life.
There is something very nourishing to our soul when we give and help others. It provides us with an intrinsic reward that far outweighs what we give.
Altruism and Generosity makes us healthier and happier.
That's why parents usually get more pleasure from their children, than children do from their parents - even though the children 'receive' much more.
Why do we hesitate/fear to Give?
We are misled into believing that by giving, we somehow lose out. If I give to someone else, there is surely less for me. It's true, but only in the short term. In the long term, giving gives us back so much more than we gave.
Why would someone want to do something for anyone if there was no gain for him/her? And most of the time, we are correct and that’s the reason our society becomes suspicious, when someone wants to do something for anyone. Shameful, isn’t!
How does Giving Help?
Giving helps to take our mind of our own worries and challenges. When we are focused on how you can give to others we are less likely to consume our whole focus on our own concerns and challenges. It provides us with an opportunity to escape from our own world and see the bigger picture.
Our worries and challenges may not seem that significant when we compare them to other people’s situations.
Ways of Giving
As we can see most of the ways that we can give to others does not necessarily have to involve money. They are many ways that we can give to others for free; yet what we give can be priceless to the person/s that we are giving to.
Give a smile to brighten up another person’s day;
Give someone a hug;
Give of yourself by sharing with others;
Give more time to your family and friends;
Give your attention to listen to someone;
Give a helping hand;
Give a donation;
Volunteer to give up some of your time to help out at your children’s school;
Help someone with directions to where they needed to go;
Give up some of your time to help others out;
And the list is endless…

Try Giving  
I’ve already started by giving you this blog – Your time starts now!!!
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5 comments:

  1. Yes TPS. The significance of giving hits us only when almost everything is taken away from us. I know the feeling you convey. Keep Blogging.

    Bala

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  2. Giving becomes relevant only when the rug is pulled under the feet. Keep blogging Sir. This is a great thought

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  3. Great. initiative Sir, reading all this gives lot of solace, energy, power and will to fight for achieving excellence in life. Many thanks for the precious time you spare to re freshen all of us. No one can doubt that giving is rightmost path for the virtuous to be achieved in once life.

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